When I work with new fathers, it’s in the back of my mind that I am meeting someone in the middle of a profound life transition, one that is rarely named with the same depth or care as motherhood. Becoming a father reshapes identity, relationships, emotional capacity,...
When I sit with someone who has just lost their life partner, I know I am entering one of the deepest grief-stricken emotional landscapes a person can endure. The grief that follows this kind of loss is layered and complex, touching the emotional, physical,...
When a client comes to me after a divorce (whether 3 months or 5 years after), I often notice a quiet complexity beneath the surface. The initial crisis has passed. The paperwork is done, the logistics of separation have settled, and the acute waves of grief may have...
Divorce can be one of life’s deepest heartbreaks. For other individuals, divorce can be a new and happy beginning right from the start. For individuals going through a divorce where this is a happy time for them, this blog post is NOT for you. This may be hard for...
As an integrative mental health therapist, I’ve sat with many clients who describe the sudden, overwhelming feeling of terror that seems to come out of nowhere. They tell me, “My heart starts racing. I can’t breathe. I feel like I’m dying.” Often, these episodes have...
