Adult relationships with parents can be complicated, even when there is love, care, and history between people. A parent’s comment may seem small from the outside. A remark about your clothes, your home, your parenting, your work, your relationship, your schedule,...
Boundaries with adult parents can feel especially complicated. A person may understand, logically, that they are allowed to have limits, privacy, preferences, and emotional space. They may know they are an adult with their own life, relationships, home, values,...
Note: In this blog, I use the word “parent,” but this can also refer to a main caregiver, guardian, grandparent, or another important adult who had a significant influence on how you learned to think, choose, and trust yourself. This blog is not written for...